Misadventure with my tobleronies :D

The past weeks totally rocked with my tobleronies. :D I spent a few good times with them and we missed buddy even more. Feeling ko nga eh sub muna ko kay bud. Anyway, I had a blast with you guys.

Trisch, my playmate, I missed you sooooo much and hanging out with you felt like gradeschool days dear. :D I can safely say that nothing has changed. Nine years had passed but you are still that crazy, funny friend I used to know. Cheers to steady friendship despite the distance. Let’s play word racer soon. ;p

Sandra, my lollipop, I missed you a looooot and the past weeks were totally cool! Like what I told you, ikaw na lang super close ko na girl from your batch. Since our vball days, you stuck it out with me. Maraming salamat lollipop! :D I love that despite the age gap (kala mo naman ang laki!) and distance, we never fail to keep in touch. Feeling ko nga nadito ka lang sa pinas ‘coz we still get to chat, text and catch up most of the time. Daig mo pa mga andito eh. ‘Di ko nararamdaman ang presence nila. Pero loco ka rin eh. Alam mo na bakit, nakasulat naman sa letter. ;p

RR, my rockstar friend. We barely hang-out. tsk! Lumalabas lang tayo pag andito ang common friends. So, what we should do is hang-out more often before you leave, okay? I love your lyrics and carefree attitude. I know you’ll be a hit it Germany. OMG! Friends say you look like Edward Cullen. Yiheeee! That’s really hot R. :D

Let me share with you my fun misadventures with my tobleronies. This will look like a page from my journal but what the heck?!

January 26

Home from my OJT, I washed my face, changed clothes and left for buko. I don’t really know what’s with the place but we always end up chillin’ there. ;p I super missed Sandy and it was the first time that I saw her since she went home for the holidays. Oh R wag ka na magtampo miss rin kita pero andito ka lang naman. I can see you any old time. haha! So there we were, having fun, enjoying our fraps and catching up. Grabe na-miss ko talaga kayo. Here’s a photo of R lookin’ hot.

hottah!hottah! ;p

February 13

I texted Sandy but globe sabotaged me. BOOOOOOO!!! But the awesome thing was we ended up going to the same place. Yeeeeeeey! Our tables were considerably far from one another but we can see each other… and when I saw her, I got all excited and went to her. Ang galling talaga na nagtagpo kami. Not that it’s impossible but the timing couldn’t have been any better. :D Cheers to singlehood!

lollipops out for a drink

February 18

Tisay’s here. Yippie! I got this comment in my facebook account telling me to go to tropical for swimming. Five minutes after, I was all over the house getting all the stuff I needed for swimming. Twenty minutes later, I was on my way to meet the girls. Oh what fun! There was a bonus by the name of Thirdy ♥♥♥ and his mother Emeriz (hindi ko alam ang tamang spelling ng Emman). We totally had fun seeing the little boy have fun in the water. He is indeed an eyecandy. :D

kala nya kalaro lang ako :))

group pic ♥

i love my tobleronies ♥♥♥

I still can’t believe you’re engaged chica. Time flies by soooooo fast! And you still get admirers. Flaunt that ring baby! hahaha!

After swimming, we went to ice monster because playmate was craving. It was also a hot day so we needed that refresh us. Jamaican patty + ice monster = ♥♥♥

Sumunod si RR after ten years, kasi party hard eh. Photo galore with tobleronies. I love!

i ♥ my tobleronies! bud uwi ka na!

February 19

I went to the mall with pap to pick up my ATM card and just when we were about to go home, I ran into RR. The rest is history…not! He grabbed me to go with him to look for the girls. Ayun, instant bonding time again. :D Two days in a row baby! I’m ecstatic!weeeeee!

We went around looking for Tisay’s outfit for their gimmick. We ended up buying nothing. But I tell you, the girl can spend a lot for make-up. hahaha! Sandy bought glasses to cover up her eye because it was slightly swollen. Nakakita si Trisch ng feathery headband tapos gamitin na lang daw ni Sands as eye patch. In the end, our remedy was to cover her eye with bangs instead. Kasi wag ka nang mamboso! =))

I really had an awesome time in the mall with you guys. :D

February 23

Sandy and I were set to meet in school for intrams. Too bad you missed papa Derek!grabe, mucho gwapito talaga! Ikaw, ha strike two ka na sakin. Adik ka talaga. I had one helluva fun playing watergun with you. Balik bata tayo eh. Ang sayaaaaaaa! ♥ Sana dati pa natin ginawa yun. Bitin eh.

:D

February 26

I wouldn’t let Sandy leave without me saying adios. I felt bad the last time she left because we weren’t able to go out one last time. So I really made an effort to make up for it. No buko for us because the day when we were supposed to go out for coffee, mum and I had to go to Makati. Hindi ako nakapalag eh. So I dropped by her place to give some sweets and love letter (yiheee!) to her and buddy.

cute us ♥

She also gave me an earrings holder, useful na, cute pa. :D Then she asked me to cose my eyes and when I opened it, it was a deck of hollogram mickey mouse cards. As in mega cool! It was then that I found out that she collects cards. Na-touch naman ako at bingay mo sakin yun. I’ll keep that in mind Sandy. I’ll buy you p’ag may nakita ako na magandang design. Aalagaan ko yun don’t worry. I miss you since you left.

Playmate, have you purchased your ticket? I miss you chica. I wanna go there but I don’t have funds as of the moment. Basta we’ll party hard before you leave.

Bud, I super duper miss you! Uwi na please. I’m planning to give some small stuff to you and Sandy when your family leaves. Pero I’m shy. Bahala na.

RR, let’s go out a lot before you leave. Rock Germany when you get there okay? See you soon hottie!

I love you tobleronies! ♥♥♥ ‘til our next misadventures. ;p

One Fine Day

Two weeks ago (Feb.23), I went to school to watch the intrams. Fine, fine it was more of to see Derek Ramsay! ♥♥♥ This piece of heaven on earth got oh so lost in our little school. ;p He was invited for the ceremonial toss. I must admit, the guy has a good heart for dropping by. Awwww… Thank you for making my heart skip a beat. ;p

♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 17 hearts for you mi derek lalalalalalooooove

I also saw my good old fellas and Sandy. Actually, may usapan talaga kami magkita dun. Ang galing lang na andun din si photogriver because his brother carried the torch. Then it was perfect timing that mg and rako talked and they went there as well. I bugged ate jean before intrams and she stepped up to the challenge. ;p Tita made chili con carne for us! ♥♥♥ The hotdogs! Oh the hotdogs!!! Jumbolicious. :D

i miss you mg and rako :D

Sandy told me she had good news which wasn’t really good news. Loco ka. Pero sige panalo ka na. I had fun with you guys. Karl, salamat sa pagbili ng watergun ko. It’s my favorite toy (I play with our dog) and thanks for being oh so game na basain kita. ;p

bang!!! ay watergun pala yan :))

parang studio pic. agree??

It was definitely one fine day. :D Thanks mucho fellas! I haven’t had such a fun day for a looooong time! Ang sarap maging bata ulit. ;p Sa uulitin!

Just Another Day

V-day was yet another day for me this year. I’ve spent the past 21 years flying solo. Okay, scratch that. Make it flying solo for the past five years. At the age of 16, I was ready to date, only there were no boys to date. =))

I thought that I would meet my boy in college. At 17, I was still single. By the time I reached 18, I was “legally” allowed to have a boyfriend, only I didn’t have one. hahaha! My entire college life, I didn’t even have a single shadow of a boy in my midst. tsk! Sure I had lots of eyecandies but nothing really prospered. It was either they were unreachable stars or taken or I was torpedo to be “friendly”. When you’re single it’s called friendly, when you’re taken it’s called flirting. nyahaha!

During sophomore year I was told that I would meet someone. At dahil dense ako, hindi ko siya naramdaman. toinks! At ang pinakamalupit, nung graduating ako, sinabihan na naman ako na may darating, good catch. I didn’t feel nor see Mr. good catch. Booooo on me! :S

I then thought that I would meet him at work so I was excited to work. I saw one but he was taken. *sniff, sniff* Don’t look for love and love will come to you. So I just went on with my life. Enjoying every second being single. :D Just looking around for eyecandies and making friends. Kaya ako K eh…not! bwahahaha!

But it would be great if I would soon meet THE ONE. Kahit early next year pwede. Hehehe! Para lang maiba naman at may ka-date sa V-day.

V-day was just an ordinary day. So ordinary that I went to school to attend my class. After all, there was no date to look forward to. The prof was kind enough to dismiss us early because everyone was sooooo bummed that we were in school on a Sunday morning plus it was V-day. Wala ka na ngang date, sadsad ka pa sa aral. Grabe naman di ba? ;p

I don’t really mind flying solo but I must admit that there are days that I wish I had a hand to hold, tipong HHWW. hahahaha! I wish I had someone to watch movies with, someone to be with around Manila and other places, someone to surprise and most of all, someone to sit with me, buy me a venti frap (my dream date back when I was a teen) and talk sense with me. Simple lang naman ang gusto ko sa buhay.

To all the boys that I liked/loved, thank you for the fun memories and pain you caused me. It helped me mature and make better decisions. To all of you reading this, if you know my future love, please have him read this. ;p You guys have a little over than five years to find him before I decide to enter sisterhood. Sige kayo, mauubos mga madre kasi lalabas sila pag pumasok ako. hahahaha! To THE ONE, one day you will read this and you will be smiling like a lunatic because you’re toooooo kilig that I have made this blog a loooooong time ago just for you. Okay, cheesy-ness borderline. ;p ;til then…

Easier said than done

*I usually do this kind of blog every year during this month. Unfortunately, I have been suffering from tamaditis and writer’s block so I sincerely beg your pardon for the lateness of this blog and the blogs that would follow…

I always do a blog about LOVE on the second week of February. You don’t need to be a genius to figure out why. But like what I said, I had tamaditis and writer’s block so this blog would be two weeks late. Anyway, I had this blog in mind for weeks now and I certainly know what to tell you about this thing called LOVE…

I’ve never been into a relationship so my take on these things would be a hit or a miss. You would either agree or disagree with me. Either way, I hope we all learn.

LOVE BUGS:

Bug #1: Mr./Ms. Right Now

Better known as the meantime girlfriend or boyfriend. Rebound if you must. I do understand that infatuation happens but one must know how to differentiate it with LOVE. This often happens to people coming from a break-up. They are vulnerable to “falling in love” when in fact they are not.

Solution: Enjoy your time being single. Go out and mingle. Date people. Take it easy. Eventually, you will know if you really are ready for a serious relationship and not just a rebound.

Bug #2: One-way Love Affair

You love him/her but he/she doesn’t love you. Do I need to explain further? I don’t think so.

Solution: The love line is getting long, get to the next boy/girl. ;p What I mean is don’t waste your time waiting for this foolio to love you. You might wait for eternity and believe me you wouldn’t want that. Just remember that you are a precious gem and if he/she doesn’t see that, sorry for him/her. Don’t waste your time on someone who doesn’t appreciate what a lovely person you are. There’s TOO MANY fish in the sea. :D

Bug #3: North and South Pole

She is a party animal, he is a home buddy. She hates smoking, he is a chain smoker. She loves sports, he’s a lampayatot. There will always be differences. The key however is how do you work your differences out?

Solution: Before you even enter a relationship, surely you knew your differences right? For some they do but for others, differences only surface when they are already in the relationship. So how do you really deal with your differences? Nothing, you just have to live with the fact that you two are different. If you are open to try, the better. Say, your partner is into frisbee and you never played any sport. Why not try it out and see for yourself? If after trying you don’t like it, then just watch your partner play. It takes a lot and I mean a L-O-T of effort to make it work. Give and take. If you feel like you exhausted all your effort but it still doesn’t work out, then go your separate ways. Simple right? Don’t make things complicated. Kumplikado na nga pakukumplikahin mo pa.

Bug#4: Asset or liability

This is very common these days. I’m talking about people who have kids. “Love child” if you are mean. One can look at it as a drawback. You can also look at it as an additional perks. It’s really about perspective. Is the glass half-full or half-empty?

Solution: If you didn’t know there was a kid involved after you two got together, then the decision is yours. You can leave him/her or stay and accept the fact that this little kiddo is part of your partner’s life FOREVER. In this society we live in, brows often shoot up when they hear you are in a relationship with someone with a kid. The challenge is for you to make them see that you are happy with this set-up and what matters most is that you love him/her. PERIOD. Eh ano kung may anak? Eh di instant daddy/mommy ka. Look at Seal. You might think that he is very lucky with Heidi Klum. For me, it’s Heidi Klum that’s really lucky to have Seal. Who would want a preggy woman who didn’t bear your child and marry her? Apparently Seal. Sa bagay Heidi Klum nga naman yun. haha! Back to my point, what I’m saying is if you see the kid as a hindrance then don’t go for it. But if you look at it as an additional perks, go for it tiger! For the receiving end, you are one lucky person ‘coz this person loves you.

Bug#5: Boredom Strikes

After some time, you get bored with your partner. Things become routinely. You get burned out and look around elsewhere.

Solution: This is dangerous and scary but it really happens. I suggest that you two take a breather. Spend ME time. It helps a lot. Also, you could try different things together. Para lang maiba naman. Do not entertain the idea to fool around and look for fun elsewhere. You know what I mean. I believe that for couples to last, they should be spontaneous. Always try new things and hopefully you will be together for a gazillion years. Cheers! :D

Bug#6: THE Friend

I’ve been told that I always treat boys like my buddies. So what’s wrong with that?? Auto-friend daw ako. Meaning lahat automatic friends. Wala na daw chance to make it to the next level. Aba! Hindi ko na problema yun. Have the balls right? What if you are the receiving end on this situation? Say you and I are friends. You like me but I see you as a friend ONLY. Why not take that risk and make that move? Who knows what might happen.

Solution: If you are me, be open to anything. But do not jump into boys as if all of them are boyfriend-potential. Do not be a meanie to boys. hahaha! Be sensitive and vigilant. Mamaya yung friends mo pala nagpapahiwatig na eh ikaw di mo gets. But be careful if they are just flirting around. If you are the boy space friend and you like this girl you are friends with, then I tell you make the move!!! You weren’t given two balls for nothing. It’s better that you make a move rather than asking what if for the rest of your life. Take the risk. If it doesn’t work out, at least you tried.

Bug #7: Million pieces

You were left broken and smashed into million pieces. Your long-term relationship has just ended and you feel soooo lost.

Solution: MOVE ON. I know it’s going to be tough but you have to. You can’t mope around forever. Learn to love yourself. Surround yourself with the people that love you no matter what. Spill all your heartaches, cry your heart out. With each tear that falls, let it wash away the pain. You’ll be better before you even know it. Learn to forgive the person that left you and accept the fact that it is better off that way. :D

Bug#8: Joke Time

People see you as a joke for some reason. They don’t take you seriously. I can not explain further. That pretty much sums it up.

Solution: Ask your closest friends and family (siblings and closest cousins are best bets) why. These are the people who are 101% honest to you. They will not beat around the bush as to why people do not take you seriously. From there, work on these “flaws” not for other people but for yourself. YOU always come first before any other person. Only then will people see you differently. Good luck!

I hope my LOVE BUGS did help or at least entertained you. Bear in mind that LOVE is such a complicated thing. Don’t make it more complicated as it is. There is no such thing as right or wrong when it comes to LOVE. At the end of the day, what matters is you are happy. I know you know what I mean. Kudos to people in love. ;p ‘til then…